Stay in your lane.
The only times someone else’s life choices should matter to you is when they personally involve you or someone is getting hurt (involuntarily) because of it. Period.
Does your neighbor being LGBT really have anything to do with you? Seriously? Has a single marriage in that community negatively affected you in any way that isn’t self-driven? Yeah, no. It hasn’t affected your insurance premiums or your income tax. It hasn’t changed your mortgage or mail delivery; does not cost you more at the grocery store or affect your daily life, EXCEPT when you start judging based on what you consider normal. They’re still people. They’re not only going through the same bill paying crap you are, but they have to deal with judgmental assholes who try to impose their belief system on them.
How does my salary (or lack thereof) affect you? The only other person who has anything to say about it is my husband who has to pick up the slack when my check can’t cover bills. For that matter, his salary doesn’t have anything to do with you, either. It affects me and the kids (and the bill collectors), but that’s it!
What does a brand of jeans on an 11 year old’s backside have to do with you? Or her shoes? Or the crazy stuff she likes all over the front of her shirt? They don’t. Worse, you don’t know what it took to get jeans to put ON her backside, so how on earth can you feel confident judging her or me based on a patch or tag?
We spend so much time worrying about what other people are doing so much, we’ve lost track of what we’re doing! Figure out what’s important and keep your nose on your side of the privacy fence!
What makes this worse is that the kids of the world are watching and learning it, too. They care more about what the kid next to them answered than their own answer. They use every opportunity they can find to judge and feel superior to the people around them. Why? Is being set apart really such a good thing?